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Caring for someone with dementia can seem like a constantly-changing rollercoaster that you’re forced to ride.
When symptoms and problems seem random and uncontrollable, caregiving becomes very stressful. But having accurate information and being able to find patterns or triggers helps you feel more in control and less stressed. You’ll also be better equipped to solve difficult behaviors or health problems.
This is why a dementia journal is a key caregiving tool. Any notekeeping method will do – a simple notebook, a binder with some lined paper, on your computer or smartphone, or whatever works best for you.
Writing quick notes in this dedicated journal throughout the day means that you’ll have accurate information about what happens and when it happens. Plus, it becomes easier to share important information with doctors, family, or other caregivers.
7 Things to Track in a Dementia Journal
1. Dementia symptoms and care needs
- Tracking new or existing dementia symptoms helps you see the bigger picture and reduce worry from uncertainty.
- Jotting notes about level of confusion, behaviors, or ability to do everyday tasks helps you know if your older adult’s cognitive function is declining or staying the same. It also gives perspective on the severity and frequency of symptoms and helps you figure out how much and what kind of help they need on a regular basis.
- For example, your notes could show that they need help with meals, but can shower and dress on their own. Or, your notes reveal that they need a lot more care than you thought – they’re quite disoriented and regularly need help with all tasks of daily living.
- Sometimes the amount of care can add up slowly and we don’t even realize how much we’re doing. Taking notes helps us realize when care needs are increasing so we’ll know that we need to ask family to help, hire help, or find volunteers and other resources.
2. Challenging behaviors – anger, anxiety, hallucinations, etc.
- Difficult behaviors are stressful and it may seem like they happen randomly. But sometimes, you can find patterns or solutions by taking notes about what happened, when it happened, and what happened before or after.
- For example, after taking notes for a week, you realize that your mom’s anger at a certain time of day could be caused by being hungry, thirsty, and a little tired. The next day, you try an experiment. About an hour before her usual outburst, you give her a small snack, encourage her to drink some water, and then encourage her to use the toilet.
- After having those physical needs met, she looks more relaxed, is in a better mood, gets interested in a fun activity, and doesn’t have an angry outburst. Because of the dementia, she didn’t realize she had those needs or know how to ask for what she needed.
- Taking notes and looking for patterns and possible triggers helped you figure out what could be causing the problem and test a possible solution.
3. Eating and nutrition
- Eating habits can change when someone has dementia. If you’re concerned that your older adult isn’t getting good nutrition, it may help to track what they’re eating, when they’re more or less interested in food, and what foods they seem to like or dislike.
- Those notes help you figure out what types of food to offer at what time of day. Plus, they also tell you how much your older adult is actually eating. Maybe they only eat small amounts so you worry that they’re not getting enough. But the notes show that they eat 6 good-sized, nutritious snacks during the day. The facts help you be less worried about nutrition.
- Tracking the amount of liquids your older adult drinks is a similar idea. If you’re worried that they’re dehydrated or if they need a certain amount of liquids for a medication to be effective, take notes on how much they drink and which beverages work best.
4. Toileting and incontinence
- People with dementia typically become incontinent at some point. If it starts to become a concern and the doctor doesn’t have any suggestions, use the dementia journal to keep your older adult on a regular toileting schedule. And if there are accidents, your notes could help you figure out if something triggered it and if it’s something that could be modified.
- For example, you may notice that if you encourage your older adult to use the toilet every 2 hours, there are no problems. But going to the bathroom every 3 hours sometimes causes an accident.
- Now you know that the ideal time for bathroom breaks is every 2 hours. Or, your notes might reveal that certain foods or beverages are more likely to cause an accident so you remove them from their regular diet.
5. Safety issues
- Safety can become a big issue when someone has dementia. One symptom is to not know what a particular object is or what it’s used for. So they may think that cleaning fluid is a sports drink or that shaving cream should be used to brush teeth. They could also get confused when handling sharp objects like knives, razors, or scissors and seriously injure themselves.
- It’s a fine line to walk when keeping someone safe and letting them be as independent as possible – especially in the earlier stages. It can be tough to know when it’s necessary to put safety locks on the stove or lock away all sharp objects.
- Tracking behavior and symptoms over time helps you see when they’re making certain types of mistakes and gives hints as to when greater supervision or added safety measures are needed.
6. Medication effectiveness and side effects
- With medication, a notebook is an essential tool. Writing things down helps you know if a medication is working well or if there are side effects that a doctor needs to know about ASAP.
- Taking notes about symptoms and changes in behavior are especially helpful when your older adult starts a new medication, you’re suspicious about an existing medication causing problems, or there’s a change in medication dose or timing. You’ll be able to give the doctor the details they need need to improve the situation.
7. Information for medical appointments
- Keeping a dementia notebook makes a visit to the doctor more productive. If you’re concerned about certain symptoms, your notes have specific information that the doctor needs in order to help. Without those accurate details, they might need to ask you to go home, observe the behavior for 2 weeks, take notes, and come back for another visit.
- Symptoms that doctors typically ask caregivers to track include falls, sleep problems, pain, fatigue, and incontinence. They’ll usually want to know how often it happens, how severe it is, if there seems to be any trigger or pattern, and anything unusual.
- When you prepare for a doctor’s appointment. look through your dementia journal to find the things that worried you. Put them into one list of questions and concerns. Then, choose your top 3 questions/concerns and bring the entire list and the journal with you.
- At the appointment, take notes on what the doctor says. This gives an accurate record of the issues discussed and the doctor’s specific instructions. There’s often so much covered during an appointment that it’s very difficult to remember it all in your head.
THE CAREGIVER ROLE
What is a Caregiver
The Caregiver Defined
Who Do Caregivers Care For
Accepting the Reality of Dementia
6 Steps to Successful Caregiving
Caregiver's Are Not Alone
Asking For & Getting Help
The Caregiver Code
Rights of a Caregiver
Unmet Needs Of A Caregiver
Caregiver And Work
Feelings And Caregiver Stress
Questions & Answers
STRESS, COPING & FEELINGS
The Caregiver Code
Rights of The Caregiver
Coping With Stress
Feelings And Caregiver Stress
Stages Of Alzheimer's
Helping Children Understand
Protecting Yourself From Burnout
Making Time For Reflection
How is Competency Defined?
Power of Attorney
What is an Advanced Directive?
Do I Really Need a Will or a Trust?
Importance of Communication
Communicating With Someone Who Has Alzheimer's
Your Approach Sets The Tone
Think Before You Speak
Doing Tasks Together
Having Trouble Being Understood
Keeping a Dementia Journal
Making Caregiving Easier - Caregiver Notebook
Things NOT To Do
When It Just Fails
TIPS AND ISSUES
New To Family Caregiving?
Tips For Dealing with Aggression
Places To Turn For Caregiver Supoort
Take Advantage of Community Support
Random Tips From Other Caregivers
Providing Long Distance Care
When To Stop Driving
Dealing With Family Conflict
Tips on Sundowning
Ways to Reduce Sundowning Challenges (part A)
Ways to Reduce Sundowning Challenges (part B)
Helping Children Understand
Pet & Toy Therapy
Getting Someone to Take Medications
Tips For Medical Appointments
Dealing With Resistance
Tips For Day To Day
Intimacy And Sexuality
Visiting A Person With Dementia
Music And Dementia
Tips For Holidays And Gatherings
Art as Home Therapy
RESEARCH & DONATIONS